Busting Excuses and Celebrating YOU!
Look, I get it. When we’re nervous or unsure about something, it’s easy to whip out a list of excuses. Life's busy, you're juggling work, family, and about a hundred other things, and sometimes, taking care of yourself just doesn’t make it to the top of the list. Sound familiar? Then there’s the whole “I need to lose 15 pounds first” or “I just don’t have the money right now” storyline. Trust me, I’ve heard it all.
But I’m here to tell you something important. Whatever excuse is holding you back, you can do this. You’re worthy of feeling amazing about yourself right now—not 15 pounds from now, not when life “calms down,” and not when your ducks decide to line up perfectly (spoiler alert, they won’t). This is your reminder that you deserve self-love, and a boudoir shoot could be the exact thing that helps you unlock it.
“I just don’t have time for myself.”
You’re busy—that’s a fact. But here’s a hard truth: if you’re not taking care of yourself mentally, how can you keep giving your best to everyone else? You can’t pour from an empty cup, and you deserve better than running on empty anyway.
Imagine hitting the pause button on life for just a few hours. Picture yourself breathing, relaxing, and stepping into a space where it’s all about you—not deadlines, not errands, and definitely not carpool schedules. A boudoir shoot is time carved out just for YOU. It’s your chance to focus on feeling beautiful, confident, and celebrated. That mental break can do wonders. You’ll walk away lighter, recharged, and with a gallery of images that remind you just how incredible you actually are.
And think about this for a second. How much mental energy are you wasting every day comparing yourself to others or worrying about what people think? What if you could redirect all that energy into loving yourself instead?
Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s essential. A boudoir shoot? It’s just one amazing way to prioritize yourself for a change.
“I’m not the size or weight I want to be.”
Oh man, this one hits close to home because it’s something I’ve heard more times than I can count. Here’s the thing though—a very small percentage of women have the so-called “ideal” body type portrayed in ads and media. Like 5%! That’s it. The rest of us? We’re out here rocking real human bodies, and that’s okay.
You don’t have to be a certain size to deserve love, confidence, or a little celebration. Why compare yourself to someone else when no two women are the same? I’ve said this so many times, but it’s worth repeating: your size doesn’t determine your worth.
It’s great to have goals. Wanting to get healthier? Awesome! But here’s the catch—it’s not about hating your body into change. True, lasting confidence comes when you love and celebrate where you are now. A boudoir shoot is about capturing that moment. It’s a celebration of you right here, right now.
And hey, if you hit that fitness milestone and want to celebrate that down the road too? Cool, come back for another session. But don’t put off feeling amazing about yourself today because you’re waiting for some “perfect” future version of you. You’re already enough.
“I never feel sexy or sensual anymore, so a boudoir shoot must not be for me.”
First off, it’s completely normal to feel like this. Life can get hectic with work, kids, responsibilities… and sometimes, in the chaos, it’s easy to lose touch with that side of yourself. But honestly? That might be the best reason to do a boudoir shoot. When was the last time you felt truly in your own skin, confident and connected to your feminine side?
A boudoir shoot can help you rediscover that spark. It’s not about turning you into someone else; it’s about showing you that the confidence and sensuality you might be missing are still there. And you know what? Taking the time to reconnect with yourself? That’s powerful.
Worried about wardrobe? Don’t be. This isn’t about forcing you into something that doesn’t feel authentic. Whether it’s a cozy knit sweater, a favorite t-shirt, or lingerie, the goal is to capture you.We’ll talk through the options and pick what feels right for your personality and comfort.
“A boudoir shoot is an investment, and I don’t have all the money right now.”
You’re right. A boudoir shoot is an investment—but it’s one that pays off in ways far beyond just photos. Think of it as an investment in yourself. You’re prioritizing your confidence, self-esteem, and personal growth. And those are things that no one can put a price on.
Still, I get that finances can be a concern. That’s why we offer plenty of ways to make it accessible. From pre-session payment plans to post-session financing with companies like Affirm or PayPal Credit, we’re here to work with you. Your confidence and self-worth are worth investing in, and we’re here to help make it doable.
What’s really holding you back?
At the end of the day, the only thing standing between you and the incredible experience of a boudoir shoot is that little voice in your head saying “not yet.” But I’m here to tell you that now is as good a time as any. You don’t need to be less busy, less stressed, or a different size to feel amazing about yourself.
A boudoir shoot is about celebrating and empowering the version of you who shows up every day—even when life is hard. It’s about loving the body you're in and feeling confident in your own skin. If that little voice is still whispering excuses, think of this as your sign to say, “I’m worth it.” Because you are.
When you’re ready to take the leap, shoot me a message. I’ll walk you through every step. You’ve got this, and I can’t wait to show you just how incredible you really are.
My goal as a boudoir photographer is to transcend mere imagery, and embody a powerful journey of self-empowerment and personal transformation. With over six years of experience working with women of all shapes, sizes, and ages, I've dedicated myself to celebrating individuality and silencing the inner critic through each personalized photo session. Join me in this empowering adventure!
- Patrick Michael